Saturday, June 19, 2010

Stuff.

yeah. It really is hard to please everyone these days. Ya' know, I don't know how it comes where everyone expects so much out of me, someone who really shouldn't be expected to be anything more than a jerk. I mean, me, of all people! I'm not saying that I can't possibly be as good as how people seem to expect me to be, I just say that it's not so. Apparently I have to somehow hang our with absolutely everyone for the appropriate amount of time, or else I'm doing something wrong.
I think some people have to step back and think how they spend their time. Most likely you're never thinking, "Oh, I'll hang out with so-and-so this many minutes and then switch to that group for one hour." Would you like it if you had to do that? Would that be fun? No. It wouldn't. I would understand if I was downright neglecting someone, but people, you and me both know that anyone I want to hang out with is not going to be neglected. Sometimes I just don't see people.
Another rant I would like to place here is the component of just letting things go. Sometimes people do things that you may not be a fan of, but I realize that almost always, the problem doesn't originate from what they do, it originates from you reacting or overreacting. If it's nothing that you think should ruin a friendship, or that you need to tell them, let it go. People sometimes do stupid or rude things, but don't make a big deal out of it. Try looking at it from their perspective and how meaningless it seems to them. At the very most they're being a bit insensitive. If something genuinely is bothering, then don't hesitate from telling them, but do not make a big deal out of it.

Tele Quote:
"My hair reminds me of milk chocolate."
"Is that good?"
"It makes me feel delicious."

2 comments:

  1. XD

    1) Haahaa! I love you. That made me feel so special to be included in your post.

    2) I know what you're saying here and I'm so sorry for all of my misunderstandings, but I'm working on making mind adjust to others' feelings again. However, are you seeing things from other people's perspectives? What might not be important to you might be to them, but like you said, THAT PERSON should speak up and tell you about it so there isn't any drama.

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  2. Good points :) And HAHAHA I LOVE YOU ELENA :D <3

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